Do you cringe when you see photos of yourself?

Perhaps you hide from the camera because you’re worried your physical flaws will be frozen in the snapshot forever. You groan whenever someone posts a photo of you on social media. If you could, you’d crop yourself out of the photos, or at least Photoshop ten pounds off.

I envy those of you who don’t seem worried about how you look in the pictures others share on social media. Instead, you’re smiling and enjoying the camaraderie with those who obviously enjoy spending time with you. 

Unlike you, I’ve missed out on many Kodak moments. Or, in today’s language, selfies with family and friends. If I don’t want to keep missing moments like these, I need to develop a different perspective.

I know I’m not alone, so I invite you to join me in developing a Christ-centered perspective.

Instead of being preoccupied with our (perceived) physical imperfections, we can ask God to help us see ourselves as others see us, especially those who love us and want us in their pictures. More importantly, let’s pray to see ourselves the way God sees us. We can ask Him to help us be less obsessed with our physical appearance as we think about this week’s verse.

I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.  Psalm 139:14 ESV

We (you!) are wonderfully made.

We are God’s masterpieces!

What if we actually believed that we are “fearfully and wonderfully made”?  Wouldn’t this reality change the way we see ourselves? Wouldn’t it change the way we interact with others? Eventually, this truth could equip (and motivate) us to live as one who reflects His love as we become less insecure – and more Christlike.

As we continue to change, our character will become so attractive that it will radiate from our countenance, replicating the One Whose character we desire to emulate. As we become less and less focused on ourselves, including how we look, not only will our character be transformed, we just might become relaxed enough to enjoy being a part of other people’s lives.

Though we still might not be thrilled to have our pictures taken, perhaps by developing this mindset, we’ll stop running away from the chance of being included in the memories of those who love us – preserved forever on social media.

What about you?

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