Afraid someone will stop loving you?
Have you ever been afraid someone you love would stop loving you? Maybe you’re struggling with insecurity. Or you haven’t been very loving yourself. Perhaps it’s been a long time since you’ve been your “best self,” and you’re afraid they’re going to give up on you.
This week’s verse speaks of the type of love we all crave, the “love [that] never ends” (1 Corinthians 13:8a ESV). Several translations say, “Love never fails.”
Raise your hand, or better yet, email me if you can promise to love any person in your life perfectly, all the time, no matter what. (I’m not expecting a lot of emails. Not even one from my husband, Bert.)
Undoubtedly, many of us aspire never to fail when it comes to loving people we truly care about. We even seek to love God perfectly, yet we fail here also. We prove it each time we dishonor Him with one of our poor choices.
Isn’t it good to know God’s love for us never fails – no matter what we do? It remains forever strong. While He doesn’t love all our choices, He does love us – unconditionally and without fail.
Let’s not take our Heavenly Father’s love for granted. Instead, let’s continue to grow in our appreciation for His love and seek to love Him unfailingly. Every day, let’s spend time with God in prayer and read (and apply) His Word. As we grow in our awareness of God’s love for us and as we grow in our love for Him, we’ll become better at loving those around us.
Loving others, especially when they don’t “deserve” our affection, is more important than we realize. When we model God’s love, our relationships thrive. When we refrain from behaving in unloving, spiteful ways to those who annoy us, mistreat us and don’t love us back, we show the world what real love looks like. This type of love begins with knowing God’s love for us, recognizing God’s love for others, and purposing to love others with the love He puts in our hearts.
My husband, Bert, often demonstrates this type of love toward me. After we fight, he’ll make his way to me – even when I’m still angry – and hold me. Each time he does, I experience the kind of love I crave most at that moment – a love that whispers, “I will never stop loving you.”
What about you?
You can use a pseudonym (fake name) when commenting.Is Mother’s Day a painful holiday for you?
- Do you struggle with the fear of rejection?
- Do you struggle with loving others even when they’re not perfect?
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Someone did give up at the time it was to broken to be fixed as I look back now I realize if we had taken different steps with the Lord instead of without on our own things would have turned out differently the love was still there just very broken after 22 years…..
Hi, Margie. Thank you for stopping by again. Your comments are so candid. So heart-breaking. You’ve been through so much. I’m encouraged that you have a relationship with God. I pray it grows and grows. I’m thankful God has blessed you with special people you can enjoy life with. I continue to also pray for further healing – physical and emotional. Please continue to drop by Today Can Be Different – and keep in touch with me.
Thank you for sharing. It definitely speaks to me, past, present, and future. It has been a long time since I have been my “best self”
Hi, Shelly. Hopefully, beginning right now, you will experience reassurance that you can be all God is calling you to be. AND that beginning right now, you will experience God’s unfailing love in the midst of your struggles. AND that you will have people in your corner, loving and supporting you.
Please keep in touch – and thank you so much for stopping by Today Can Be Different.